PART ONE - Introduction

Our society is in a confused state about human sexuality and sexual identity. We understand that there are heterosexual males and females, and when they procreate, many times they create more heterosexual males and females. However, increasingly we are becoming more aware of this growing third group who see themselves as homosexual, transgender or gay.

Many are asking themselves, ‘where are all of the homosexual and gay members of our society coming from? These gay or homosexual members of our society are not created out of thin air. The reality is that these individuals are loved and loving sons and daughters of ‘heterosexual’ mothers and fathers. They are essentially the result of mothers, fathers and the makeup of their individual emotional relationships and lifestyles.

What I will attempt to provide in this blog is a basic understanding of a very clear and logical conclusion, based on a scientific study by Dr. Ingebog Ward over 30 years ago, that directly connects the lack of a desire for a male to procreate with a female to his brain development during the critical first trimester. I will attempt to explain how the mother and father may have a definite and direct impact on whether the male child will be born with a level of the ‘Intersex’ condition resulting in a decreased desire or lack of a desire to procreate with the opposite sex. Also I will provide very basic common sense approach to actions a mother or father can take, to not only reduce the chance of creating an Intersex child, helps to foster a more loving relationship between .

However, what this will require is a level of acceptance and responsibility from the mother and the father of the unborn child. It’s unfortunate that so much in our society is tied to the concept that no one is responsible for most birth defects or disorders. It’s much easier to live in a state of denial, or blame God for the outcome. But internally the mother and or father tend to suffer alone with the guilt wondering what they did wrong. The result is that the same actions create the same results, over and over again. It’s to the point now that we try to accept many birth defects as ‘normal’ since no person’s actions are at fault, and the blame has been put on God.

This all changes once we are able to accept the fact that Intersex children, or children that may adopt a gay lifestyle later in life, come from heterosexual parents. And what makes them Intersex may be directly related to choices made by the mother and father before the child was ever born.

That statement may take some time to digest. As most parents find comfort in feeling the ‘environment’ is responsible or the child himself is responsible or that he was just ‘born that way’.

As you read further, you will begin to gain a clearer understanding of the science and psychology behind this concept, and begin to understand what is happening from a common sense and scientific perspective during the first trimester.

Clearly, this blog is not a discussion about gay rights, political views, religious views or judgments based on lifestyle choices. Everyone has a right to be happy, no matter whom they choose to love. This blog is focused on women, potential parents and parents who are looking for a common sense proactive approach to addressing issues related to their child’s healthy sexual identity development.

I will not attempt to guarantee that by using the information provided, you will not have a child won’t be born with a level of the ‘Intersex’ condition, or that he won’t choose to have homosexual sex or choose to ‘Be’ gay.

However, what I will offer are common sense approaches based on available scientific research on the first trimester of child development and sexuality, so you are able to actively take steps to help decrease your chances of giving birth to an Intersex male child.
You will be surprised to find that the common sense approach steps I will provide, are actions you and your partner/spouse should already be doing, not just to help ensure a healthy child, but for your own health, a healthy relationship and marriage..

Just like many parents, I have reviewed volumes of conflicting published statistics and news reports on why children are born or choose to be homosexual or gay; why they are gay due to their ‘environment’; why boys are gay due to ‘over mothering’ or lack of father figure, and why they are gay due to being ‘sexually molested’ as children.

My focus will be on the Intersex male since the most reliable studies are more conclusive as it relates to the male fetus. However, there is a high chance that the female Intersex condition is also the result of very similar biological causes and with the same common sense solution.

Understanding that while the many sides of this debate continue to argue over who is right and who are wrong, concerned and confused women and parents really have no options, and are unknowingly creating even more children that are born with various levels of the Intersex condition, who are either bisexual, homosexual or transgender.

I will focus on one solid and conclusive study with a clear hypothesis that provides a very basic, logical and common sense approach to why so many male children are being born Intersex. This means that I will not continue to confuse the situation with page after page of statistics, reports and then more contradicting reports and statistics.

So if you are looking for a very basic, common sense approach based on clinical studies, that provides a clear hypothesis based on available research, with common sense steps you can take to reduce your chances of creating a male child who is born lacking the desire to procreate with the opposite sex, born less male than the norm or their birth father, or a male child who later In life may feel he was ’ born’ gay or homosexual, this is an excellent place to start.